Man turned into woman worries about wife's future
Hisar, Jul 7 (UNI) Vishal of Juglan village near here, who is now known as Anu after he got his sex changed, is worried about his wife and daughter's future.
''My parents helped me overcome the natural deficiency and disorder in my body through an operation and treatment but I am now worried about my young wife Isha and one-and-half year old daughter Ishita,'' said the 26-year-old, who was married three years ago but now turned into a woman after undergoing a sex change operation in New Delhi. The operation done with the consent of his family cost him Rs three lakh.
''My parents and two brothers have assured me to look after my daughter and ensure her a bright future,'' Anu said.
''The search for a groom for Isha is on within the family and my father is hopeful to solemnise her re-marriage with a suitable boy of our family.'' In reply to a question about his own re-marriage, he said, ''The change of sex has not been done for the purpose of re-marriage. I have been tolerating the agony and discomfort of imbalance in my body for long and now after change of sex I feel at ease.'' ''As a boy I was a health freak visiting gym daily and maintained a brawny body. Now my behaviour and body have become womanish. Now I won't be able to move freely alone on my bike. I am not in New York where gays and all trans-sexuals move freely in society. I shall have to respect the local culture and traditions and live as other women live in our society,'' said Anu, who has done a course in fashion designing from Guru Jambheshwar University and runs a tailoring shop in Hisar.
''There
are
thousands
of
boys
and
girls
in
the
country
who
are
facing
the
similar
problems.
I
tell
them
to
be
bold
and
to
come
forward,
strive
to
eradicate
the
stigma
from
their
lives.
It
is
not
a
sin
or
crime.''
His
father
OP
Sura
said,
''Though
it
was
difficult
and
painful
we
have
compromised
with
the
situation.
My
next
responsibility
is
to
settle
down
his
young
wife
Isha.
Hopefully,
she
will
get
a
good
partner
soon
within
the
family.''
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