"We were not very pleasantly surprised by the comments that we heard from many political leaders in India also. I think this is what has changed in Pakistan where India needs to catch up," Khar said.
"After the comments by the Army Chief, I am taken back a few 20 years," Khar said on the popular Charlie Rose Show of the PBS news channel. "What did he say?" she was asked in follow up.
"Just very hostile comments," Khar said, adding, she was referring to the comments made by the Indian Army Chief. Yesterday, Gen Singh issued a clear warning to Pakistan saying India reserves the right to retaliate at the "time and place" of its choosing.
Talking tough over the Jan 8 incident in Mendhar area of Jammu and Kashmir, he said, the beheading was "unacceptable" and "most unpardonable" and the troops would respond immediately, aggressively and offensively if provoked.
Khar is in New York to attend a special session of the UN Security Council of which Pakistan is the Chairman for the month of January.
"I think Pakistan today presents a country which is very clear in its head as to how it wants to operate with its neighbours. And the way we want to operate with our neighbours is to try and build on the trust to take care of and then build that trust enough to be able to build an environment in which we can take care of the disputes that we have on the dialogue table rather than through military statements and through military actions," Khar said.